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11:01am Monday 7th April 2008
A FORMER teacher took his own life because he was afraid people would find out he was gay, an inquest heard.
Clive Richards, who was prominent in the local music and theatre scene, was found dead at his home in Stratfield Road, Oakridge, on Sunday, February 17.
The 67-year-old former PE teacher at The Vyne School, Basingstoke, had hanged himself the day before he was due to appear in court after being charged with an indecency offence.
On the first day of proceedings, the Crown Prosecution Service offered no evidence.
Mr Richards was a leading light in Basingstoke Male Voice Choir and a key member of Basingstoke Amateur Operatic Society and Basingstoke Rugby Football Club.
Les Graddon, a long-time friend, told the inquest, at Basingstoke and Deane Civic Offices, that at the beginning of February, Mr Richards had told him he had been having gay relationships.
He also admitted he had been charged with an indecency offence in a public place.
Mr Graddon explained: "He told me things had been said about him that weren't true and he had to go to court.
"He wasn't concerned about the outcome of the court case. He was more concerned that the fact he was homosexual was going to come out in the press.
"He was absolutely terrified."
Mr Graddon told the court he had asked Mr Richards why he had not told him he was gay before and said Mr Richards told him it was because he was "ashamed".
He added: "I am certain that if this court case had been stopped, he would be alive today."
The inquest heard Mr Graddon believed his friend, whom he had known for 33 years, was "at grave risk of suicide" and had been checking on him.
Mr Graddon was due to meet Mr Richards for lunch on Sunday, February 17, but when he went round to his house, he found Mr Richards hanging from a beam in the roof.
He said Mr Richards had left all his affairs clearly labelled on the dining room table, which included letters to friends and family.
His Basingstoke Male Voice Choir uniform was also laid out, ready to be returned.
Andrew Bradley, coroner for North East Hampshire, said notes left by Mr Richards clearly reflected he was worried about the stigma attached to his sexuality.
"He was of an age where it would have been of great significance to him," he said.
The coroner added: "I am certain that he found himself charged with an offence of indecency and found that unacceptable and intolerable, and he couldn't face the public reaction to that."
Mr Bradley said there may have been some stigma attached to the offence, but "it seems it was his sexuality that caused him the problem".
Recording a verdict of suicide, with the cause of death identified as asphyxiation, Mr Bradley said: "He will be a very significant loss to the people of Basingstoke.
"He was a great contributor and he will be very much missed."
S May, Basingstoke says...
12:20pm Mon 7 Apr 08
Fuming, Basingstoke says...
12:54pm Mon 7 Apr 08
Staggered, Basingstoke says...
12:59pm Mon 7 Apr 08
vanessa, says...
1:29pm Mon 7 Apr 08
Brian, Basingstoke says...
2:42pm Mon 7 Apr 08
S May wrote:hmmm, I am not comfortable with the prejudices that you may be teaching your children.
I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher. I am sorry if I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.
Brian, Basingstoke says...
2:48pm Mon 7 Apr 08
richard, Nottingham says...
4:52pm Mon 7 Apr 08
Tony Konrath, Key West fl USA, London UK says...
6:27pm Mon 7 Apr 08
S May wrote:Well, S May, I don't want my children to come into contact with people like you who express that sort of ill disguised hatred. You should be ashamed of yourself!
I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher. I am sorry if I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.
BonzoDog, Local says...
7:09pm Mon 7 Apr 08
Buddy, IL says...
7:30pm Mon 7 Apr 08
S May wrote:How do you know that they aren't/weren't being taught by a gay PE teacher?
I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher. I am sorry if I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.
Brian, Basingstoke says...
7:43pm Mon 7 Apr 08
BonzoDog wrote:BonzoDog : the subject of this news article is about a gay man - why would we not discuss it ? Running away from issues is the least constructive thing to do.
There's three topics we shouldn't discuss in here: Politics, Religion and talking about Gays. No one wins, so it's best to forget it and move on......
Soldats, MA says...
8:57pm Mon 7 Apr 08
I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher.
I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve
penny, basingstoke says...
11:20pm Mon 7 Apr 08
Truthspeaker, says...
11:24pm Mon 7 Apr 08
Brian, Basingstoke says...
11:27pm Mon 7 Apr 08
Truthspeaker wrote:Whatever's wrong with you, it's no little thing.
The other option of course, is that Clive could have dealt with his homosexual feelings in therapy or gone to a psychiatrist to get medication for his depression. I think the reason he took is life is obviously deeper than this article, and I would say his pride got the best of him, which is too bad because there is always help to leave deviant behaviors if one is willing to get it. It appears Clive ended his life in the most selfish way possible, which apparently was consistent with how he lived his life. It was all about him. Which incidentally is the way gays tend to live.
jo lander, basingstoke says...
12:45am Tue 8 Apr 08
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Jon Davies, Basingstoke says...
11:29am Mon 7 Apr 08