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11:01am Monday 7th April 2008

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A FORMER teacher took his own life because he was afraid people would find out he was gay, an inquest heard.

Clive Richards, who was prominent in the local music and theatre scene, was found dead at his home in Stratfield Road, Oakridge, on Sunday, February 17.

The 67-year-old former PE teacher at The Vyne School, Basingstoke, had hanged himself the day before he was due to appear in court after being charged with an indecency offence.

On the first day of proceedings, the Crown Prosecution Service offered no evidence.

Mr Richards was a leading light in Basingstoke Male Voice Choir and a key member of Basingstoke Amateur Operatic Society and Basingstoke Rugby Football Club.

Les Graddon, a long-time friend, told the inquest, at Basingstoke and Deane Civic Offices, that at the beginning of February, Mr Richards had told him he had been having gay relationships.

He also admitted he had been charged with an indecency offence in a public place.

Mr Graddon explained: "He told me things had been said about him that weren't true and he had to go to court.

"He wasn't concerned about the outcome of the court case. He was more concerned that the fact he was homosexual was going to come out in the press.

"He was absolutely terrified."

Mr Graddon told the court he had asked Mr Richards why he had not told him he was gay before and said Mr Richards told him it was because he was "ashamed".

He added: "I am certain that if this court case had been stopped, he would be alive today."

The inquest heard Mr Graddon believed his friend, whom he had known for 33 years, was "at grave risk of suicide" and had been checking on him.

Mr Graddon was due to meet Mr Richards for lunch on Sunday, February 17, but when he went round to his house, he found Mr Richards hanging from a beam in the roof.

He said Mr Richards had left all his affairs clearly labelled on the dining room table, which included letters to friends and family.

His Basingstoke Male Voice Choir uniform was also laid out, ready to be returned.

Andrew Bradley, coroner for North East Hampshire, said notes left by Mr Richards clearly reflected he was worried about the stigma attached to his sexuality.

"He was of an age where it would have been of great significance to him," he said.

The coroner added: "I am certain that he found himself charged with an offence of indecency and found that unacceptable and intolerable, and he couldn't face the public reaction to that."

Mr Bradley said there may have been some stigma attached to the offence, but "it seems it was his sexuality that caused him the problem".

Recording a verdict of suicide, with the cause of death identified as asphyxiation, Mr Bradley said: "He will be a very significant loss to the people of Basingstoke.

"He was a great contributor and he will be very much missed."



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Jon Davies, Basingstoke says...
11:29am Mon 7 Apr 08

This is an absolute tragedy & a damning indictment on the law that persecutes homosexuals. Clive Richards was a great teacher a lovely man & a long standing servant to the community. He has apparently taken his own life because of a law that still criminalises the behaviour 2 consenting adults.

S May, Basingstoke says...
12:20pm Mon 7 Apr 08

I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher. I am sorry if I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.

Fuming, Basingstoke says...
12:54pm Mon 7 Apr 08

Old fashioned? Narrow minded more like. My 84 year old grandmother is more relaxed in her views than you. S May states that he/she wouldn't be comfortable with a gay PE teacher. Why? Do you think that homosexuality = paedophilia? So say youre children are boys and they are taught by a female PE teacher - this is ok? Even though a heterosexual woman is more than capable of taking advantage of boys.

It's people like you, who caused this man to feel this way and take his own life. And nobody has that right.

Staggered, Basingstoke says...
12:59pm Mon 7 Apr 08

Really, S May? Why would you be uncomfortable with your (presumably male) offspring being taught by a gay PE teacher?

If you're worried about sexual attraction, would you be similarly uncomfortable with them being taught by a female PE teacher?

Or are you just falling for the archaic notion that all homosexuals are predatory? If so, I feel extremely sorry for you.

vanessa, says...
1:29pm Mon 7 Apr 08

this man was a teacher when i was at school. its such a shame a good teacher like this man was, felt he had to take his own life.

Brian, Basingstoke says...
2:42pm Mon 7 Apr 08

S May wrote:
I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher. I am sorry if I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.
hmmm, I am not comfortable with the prejudices that you may be teaching your children.

Brian, Basingstoke says...
2:48pm Mon 7 Apr 08

I don't know the nature of the "indecency offence " but the real tragedy here is that this man believed he had to live his entire life in secrecy. That's more of a damning indictment on societies intolerance rather than the law.

richard, Nottingham says...
4:52pm Mon 7 Apr 08

Shame on you S May! To use a story about the social shame of a clearly loved man to try and deal with your psychological insecurities.

Not only that - there is an investigation underway at the moment surrounding a magistrate with similar ideas to you.....to imply gay people are a danger to children is intolerable. How dare you?

Tony Konrath, Key West fl USA, London UK says...
6:27pm Mon 7 Apr 08

S May wrote:
I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher. I am sorry if I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.
Well, S May, I don't want my children to come into contact with people like you who express that sort of ill disguised hatred. You should be ashamed of yourself!

BonzoDog, Local says...
7:09pm Mon 7 Apr 08

There's three topics we shouldn't discuss in here: Politics, Religion and talking about Gays.

No one wins, so it's best to forget it and move on......

Buddy, IL says...
7:30pm Mon 7 Apr 08

S May wrote:
I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher. I am sorry if I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.
How do you know that they aren't/weren't being taught by a gay PE teacher?

Brian, Basingstoke says...
7:43pm Mon 7 Apr 08

BonzoDog wrote:
There's three topics we shouldn't discuss in here: Politics, Religion and talking about Gays. No one wins, so it's best to forget it and move on......
BonzoDog : the subject of this news article is about a gay man - why would we not discuss it ? Running away from issues is the least constructive thing to do.

Soldats, MA says...
8:57pm Mon 7 Apr 08

I do have to say that people really need to stop with the public sex. I'm all for people getting laid, often, and in the kinkiest ways possible provided it's consensual, but for goodness sake, do it in private. I see nothing wrong with the law, but the shame attached to homosexuality where people would rather resort to secret sexual encounters (in public), is both dangerous and sad. Yeah, he's a product of another age, but good grief man, get with the times, it's the 21st century - there's nothing wrong with being yourself (at least in the developed parts of the world), whether that's gay, straight or bent in other ways. Of course there's a vocal minority of bigots from the old days, but really, who gives them much credence these days?

I don't think I would be comfortable with my kids being taught by a gay PE teacher.


I would much rather my kids are taught PE or any subject matter by someone competent in the field regardless of their sexuality. Apparently in your reality, sexuality matters more than competence. Quite sad, but eventually it's your kids that will suffer from being taught by incompetents.

I am old fashioned but it's Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve


Really? So I guess people called Steve are automagically disqualified as being created by your god? That must be awfully restrictive to only have men named Adam and women named Eve as the creations of your rather limited supreme being.

And yes, I'm mocking these silly notions, because they're obviously not based on reality in order to refute them with any seriousness.

penny, basingstoke says...
11:20pm Mon 7 Apr 08

Clive richards was my teacher a few years ago and was a caring and wonderful man im truly sorry to hear of his sad death.Its so sad that a truly gifted man has been lost because of a group of small minded bigots that still exists in our society today R.I.P clive you will be sadly missed xxx

Truthspeaker, says...
11:24pm Mon 7 Apr 08

The other option of course, is that Clive could have dealt with his homosexual feelings in therapy or gone to a psychiatrist to get medication for his depression. I think the reason he took is life is obviously deeper than this article, and I would say his pride got the best of him, which is too bad because there is always help to leave deviant behaviors if one is willing to get it. It appears Clive ended his life in the most selfish way possible, which apparently was consistent with how he lived his life. It was all about him. Which incidentally is the way gays tend to live.

Brian, Basingstoke says...
11:27pm Mon 7 Apr 08

Truthspeaker wrote:
The other option of course, is that Clive could have dealt with his homosexual feelings in therapy or gone to a psychiatrist to get medication for his depression. I think the reason he took is life is obviously deeper than this article, and I would say his pride got the best of him, which is too bad because there is always help to leave deviant behaviors if one is willing to get it. It appears Clive ended his life in the most selfish way possible, which apparently was consistent with how he lived his life. It was all about him. Which incidentally is the way gays tend to live.
Whatever's wrong with you, it's no little thing.

jo lander, basingstoke says...
12:45am Tue 8 Apr 08

clive richards was a great teacher and will be sadly missed by alot of people.i cant understand why being gay is so hard for some people to understand.s may think about this if one or more of you kids later in life tells you their gay what would you do?you see people dont get up one morning and think im going to be gay,its just the way things are.so before anyone judges clive or anyone else think about it.its not sick to love someone who ever that person is.its a shame more people have to hate and be so small minded then to love and be loved.good night clive god bless.

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