Knife drama at Skandia's offices in Southampton (From This is Hampshire)

I knew working there was bad but crikey! :s

H0ckeyd wrote:
I knew working there was bad but crikey! :s

lol I guess most of us will think that- however- get ready for those that get 'offended' by this throwaway remark.


Maybe 'friends' or 'family' who are deeply upset about the person - or maybe their great great grandfather who did the same outside Ye Olde Bargate back in 1889.


Surprised at Skandia though. Woolies or MFI maybe.......

King Mush wrote:

H0ckeyd wrote:
I knew working there was bad but crikey! :s

lol I guess most of us will think that- however- get ready for those that get 'offended' by this throwaway remark.


Maybe 'friends' or 'family' who are deeply upset about the person - or maybe their great great grandfather who did the same outside Ye Olde Bargate back in 1889.


Surprised at Skandia though. Woolies or MFI maybe.......

maybe its because he just got to hear about the latest lay off.though the recession, and talk of whitch 2 more countrys have gone into a depression, things are getting worse.

People who attempt to commit suicide in a public place are usually suffering from mental vulnerabilities at the time. In short, the balance of their minds are disturbed. Possibly this is not so funny as some correspondents on this board seem to suggest. I am glad that the situation did not turn out worse for the person and am also glad that he is now getting the appropriate treatment.

Donald2000 wrote:
People who attempt to commit suicide in a public place are usually suffering from mental vulnerabilities at the time. In short, the balance of their minds are disturbed. Possibly this is not so funny as some correspondents on this board seem to suggest. I am glad that the situation did not turn out worse for the person and am also glad that he is now getting the appropriate treatment.

Q.E.D.

King Mush wrote:

Donald2000 wrote:
People who attempt to commit suicide in a public place are usually suffering from mental vulnerabilities at the time. In short, the balance of their minds are disturbed. Possibly this is not so funny as some correspondents on this board seem to suggest. I am glad that the situation did not turn out worse for the person and am also glad that he is now getting the appropriate treatment.

Q.E.D.

PS


Anybody naturally wishes for a happy outcome- however we do seem to attract a form of 'censorship' in which some people dont like what other people come out with, despite the open nature of any web forum.

Many of us (including me) have had personal links to all manner of 'sad' circumstances but it shouldnt stop me or anybody else (especially strangers) for lightening up.

King Mush

What does QED mean?

southy wrote:

King Mush wrote:

H0ckeyd wrote:
I knew working there was bad but crikey! :s

lol I guess most of us will think that- however- get ready for those that get 'offended' by this throwaway remark.


Maybe 'friends' or 'family' who are deeply upset about the person - or maybe their great great grandfather who did the same outside Ye Olde Bargate back in 1889.


Surprised at Skandia though. Woolies or MFI maybe.......

maybe its because he just got to hear about the latest lay off.though the recession, and talk of whitch 2 more countrys have gone into a depression, things are getting worse.

Think of the fire sales as goods are ditched cheaply to raise money quickly. It's an ill wind that blows no-one any good and as a committed capitalist I think it's incumbent upon me to buy cut price and help the poor souls out. Now which countries did you say have gone in to depression?

Someone tried to commit suicide here and mostly, I've read comments from people taking the mickey, this is a sad reflection of the society that we live in. I hope that he doesn't try to throw himself off The Itchen Bridge, maybe you guys would find that amusing too?

Brite Spark wrote:
Someone tried to commit suicide here and mostly, I've read comments from people taking the mickey, this is a sad reflection of the society that we live in. I hope that he doesn't try to throw himself off The Itchen Bridge, maybe you guys would find that amusing too?

What is funny about the Itchen Bridge?
Or are you another one of these lowlifes that gets a laugh at every water-spanning structure?

QED: Quod erat demonstrandum - This a latin phrase for 'That which was to be demonstrated '.

King Mush wrote:

King Mush wrote:

Donald2000 wrote: People who attempt to commit suicide in a public place are usually suffering from mental vulnerabilities at the time. In short, the balance of their minds are disturbed. Possibly this is not so funny as some correspondents on this board seem to suggest. I am glad that the situation did not turn out worse for the person and am also glad that he is now getting the appropriate treatment.

Q.E.D.

PS Anybody naturally wishes for a happy outcome- however we do seem to attract a form of 'censorship' in which some people dont like what other people come out with, despite the open nature of any web forum. Many of us (including me) have had personal links to all manner of 'sad' circumstances but it shouldnt stop me or anybody else (especially strangers) for lightening up.

Working in the field of mental health myself, I dont find anything funny about it. And as for telling people what to write on an open forum, I am sure we dont need lessons from you.

warness wrote:

Brite Spark wrote:
Someone tried to commit suicide here and mostly, I've read comments from people taking the mickey, this is a sad reflection of the society that we live in. I hope that he doesn't try to throw himself off The Itchen Bridge, maybe you guys would find that amusing too?

What is funny about the Itchen Bridge?
Or are you another one of these lowlifes that gets a laugh at every water-spanning structure?

nope. lost me there warness.

Donald2000 wrote:

King Mush wrote:

King Mush wrote:

Donald2000 wrote: People who attempt to commit suicide in a public place are usually suffering from mental vulnerabilities at the time. In short, the balance of their minds are disturbed. Possibly this is not so funny as some correspondents on this board seem to suggest. I am glad that the situation did not turn out worse for the person and am also glad that he is now getting the appropriate treatment.

Q.E.D.

PS Anybody naturally wishes for a happy outcome- however we do seem to attract a form of 'censorship' in which some people dont like what other people come out with, despite the open nature of any web forum. Many of us (including me) have had personal links to all manner of 'sad' circumstances but it shouldnt stop me or anybody else (especially strangers) for lightening up.

Working in the field of mental health myself, I dont find anything funny about it. And as for telling people what to write on an open forum, I am sure we dont need lessons from you.

OOOOHHHH
So sir works in mental health, so has a monopoly on the subject?
Did it ever cross your mind before you wrote that, that tens of thousands of us either work with, play with, cohabitate, care for, or study the subject, or people afflicted.
People make jokes about alcoholism, hitler, obesity, schizophrenia, childbirth, poverty, race, religion.
As KM said, lighten up.

I dont deny that people do tend to make light of unfortunate situations such as tidal waves, earthquakes, martial affairs etc. However, these tend to be shared umongst friends that you know have the same sense of humour. This web site allows for all personalities and we should accomodate everyone.
All that said, I work at Skandia and know the person who felt so sad that they had to do this. So lets just remember this is a real person and wish him better

candy123 wrote:
I dont deny that people do tend to make light of unfortunate situations such as tidal waves, earthquakes, martial affairs etc. However, these tend to be shared umongst friends that you know have the same sense of humour. This web site allows for all personalities and we should accomodate everyone.
All that said, I work at Skandia and know the person who felt so sad that they had to do this. So lets just remember this is a real person and wish him better

Good post and I'm sure we all agree with the final sentence.

This or any other website cannot legislate for what might be deemed 'offensive' humour to some- but mere light hearted comments in passing to to others. Very few of us take delight in 'cruel'personal comments and it's quite easy to ignore the banal rubbish that often accompanies any story from certain posters. They often get removed and/or find that they are bounced off this semi-moderated site.

candy123 wrote:
I dont deny that people do tend to make light of unfortunate situations such as tidal waves, earthquakes, martial affairs etc. However, these tend to be shared umongst friends that you know have the same sense of humour. This web site allows for all personalities and we should accomodate everyone. All that said, I work at Skandia and know the person who felt so sad that they had to do this. So lets just remember this is a real person and wish him better

But should we accommodate those who can't spell "accommodate"?

Get it right wrote:

candy123 wrote: I dont deny that people do tend to make light of unfortunate situations such as tidal waves, earthquakes, martial affairs etc. However, these tend to be shared umongst friends that you know have the same sense of humour. This web site allows for all personalities and we should accomodate everyone. All that said, I work at Skandia and know the person who felt so sad that they had to do this. So lets just remember this is a real person and wish him better

But should we accommodate those who can't spell "accommodate"?

I don't think we should. They should not be allowed to comment UMONGST us.

was he a pompey fan?

warness wrote:

Donald2000 wrote:

King Mush wrote:

King Mush wrote:

Donald2000 wrote: People who attempt to commit suicide in a public place are usually suffering from mental vulnerabilities at the time. In short, the balance of their minds are disturbed. Possibly this is not so funny as some correspondents on this board seem to suggest. I am glad that the situation did not turn out worse for the person and am also glad that he is now getting the appropriate treatment.

Q.E.D.

PS Anybody naturally wishes for a happy outcome- however we do seem to attract a form of 'censorship' in which some people dont like what other people come out with, despite the open nature of any web forum. Many of us (including me) have had personal links to all manner of 'sad' circumstances but it shouldnt stop me or anybody else (especially strangers) for lightening up.

Working in the field of mental health myself, I dont find anything funny about it. And as for telling people what to write on an open forum, I am sure we dont need lessons from you.

OOOOHHHH So sir works in mental health, so has a monopoly on the subject? Did it ever cross your mind before you wrote that, that tens of thousands of us either work with, play with, cohabitate, care for, or study the subject, or people afflicted. People make jokes about alcoholism, hitler, obesity, schizophrenia, childbirth, poverty, race, religion. As KM said, lighten up.

Lighten up yourself, silly person. Lets see how you feel when you are suicidal, make an attempt on your own life and end up in hospital. Yep, not so funny then is it?

Donald2000 wrote:

warness wrote:

Donald2000 wrote:

King Mush wrote:

King Mush wrote:

Donald2000 wrote: People who attempt to commit suicide in a public place are usually suffering from mental vulnerabilities at the time. In short, the balance of their minds are disturbed. Possibly this is not so funny as some correspondents on this board seem to suggest. I am glad that the situation did not turn out worse for the person and am also glad that he is now getting the appropriate treatment.

Q.E.D.

PS Anybody naturally wishes for a happy outcome- however we do seem to attract a form of 'censorship' in which some people dont like what other people come out with, despite the open nature of any web forum. Many of us (including me) have had personal links to all manner of 'sad' circumstances but it shouldnt stop me or anybody else (especially strangers) for lightening up.

Working in the field of mental health myself, I dont find anything funny about it. And as for telling people what to write on an open forum, I am sure we dont need lessons from you.

OOOOHHHH So sir works in mental health, so has a monopoly on the subject? Did it ever cross your mind before you wrote that, that tens of thousands of us either work with, play with, cohabitate, care for, or study the subject, or people afflicted. People make jokes about alcoholism, hitler, obesity, schizophrenia, childbirth, poverty, race, religion. As KM said, lighten up.

Lighten up yourself, silly person. Lets see how you feel when you are suicidal, make an attempt on your own life and end up in hospital. Yep, not so funny then is it?

Tell me Donny
What do you know about the subject? more than me - or less than me - or less on some aspects and more on others?
2 Points
First, don't assume anything about a fellow human, even if you do know them
Second, Don't get all high and morally superior about a situation which you do not know the facts, but chose to substitute your own life skirmishes into the blank spaces, then have the audacity to take emotional ownership of someone elses plight.
Go and have a beer

Lighten up yourself, silly person. Lets see how you feel when you are suicidal, make an attempt on your own life and end up in hospital. Yep, not so funny then is it?

Huh? What suicide attempt? I didn't read anything about suicide. Self-harm, perhaps, the old "cry for help" routine - and luckily he got the help - but surely a supposed expert such as yourself knows that opening your wrists on a busy street in broad daylight is destined to fail as a suicide attempt. Genuine suicide attemps tend to succeed

@King Mush. Yes, your posting did amuse me but its quite logical. Sorry for my lack of humour bypass. Your points are accepted by myself. I will toast you in a soft drink, if I might.

@Georgem. Yes, you made a very thoughtful point.

Have a heart people. You discuss this like it's a run of the mill event. It's not, it's a real person going through some really SERIOUS issues. Show some compassion ffs!

Donald2000 wrote:
@King Mush. Yes, your posting did amuse me but its quite logical. Sorry for my lack of humour bypass. Your points are accepted by myself. I will toast you in a soft drink, if I might.

@Georgem. Yes, you made a very thoughtful point.

No probs- this can be the downside of the net when certain comments seem to irk certain others for whatever reason. I'm sure that many of us who read the stories will have some direct or indirect link to the core subject and no doubt have personal experience.


However this shouldnt lead to a kind of 'censorship' where posters are 'told off' or berated for off-colour comments. Most of us just brush it off, ignore the blatant trolls and sick idiots who pop up now and then. Just pity them and leave the numpties alone as they soon disappear up their own orifices from which they spout their fecal matter.

Anyone can set themselves up as an 'expert' in any field and pontificate on any manner of story thread and the comments. Therefore one cannot expect anybody to take it seriously- unless it's obvious by the style, content and manner of writing.



Once again - someone has pointed out that this appears another 'cry for help' by virtue of the act. We all hope that the person gets the help he deserves

seriously people... this is not a funny matter! knowing the person involved makes me very sad.... as it I can personally say this is a person who always shows respect to everyone, is kind and always smiled to everyone....! makes me sad to see that when someone like all of us is vulnerable, everyone likes to laugh and point...as opposed to trying to give support....
Life sometimes can play bad tricks on you and until you go through those moments you will never know how you will react....
all I hope is that the person makes a full recovery and continues to be the same kind and happy person of always....

King Mush wrote:

Donald2000 wrote: @King Mush. Yes, your posting did amuse me but its quite logical. Sorry for my lack of humour bypass. Your points are accepted by myself. I will toast you in a soft drink, if I might. @Georgem. Yes, you made a very thoughtful point.

No probs- this can be the downside of the net when certain comments seem to irk certain others for whatever reason. I'm sure that many of us who read the stories will have some direct or indirect link to the core subject and no doubt have personal experience. However this shouldnt lead to a kind of 'censorship' where posters are 'told off' or berated for off-colour comments. Most of us just brush it off, ignore the blatant trolls and sick idiots who pop up now and then. Just pity them and leave the numpties alone as they soon disappear up their own orifices from which they spout their fecal matter. Anyone can set themselves up as an 'expert' in any field and pontificate on any manner of story thread and the comments. Therefore one cannot expect anybody to take it seriously- unless it's obvious by the style, content and manner of writing. Once again - someone has pointed out that this appears another 'cry for help' by virtue of the act. We all hope that the person gets the help he deserves

'Once again - someone has pointed out that this appears another 'cry for help'

Lol it's just what he does when he's **** off I've watched him do it on may occasions it's just unfortunate that he's done it at work...